Our Services
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Relationships are complicated. Sometimes the decision to divorce is not a straightforward one.
We’re here to help couples and individuals learn about their options and figure out the next step in a safe and supportive environment.
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Divorce can feel like you got spun in a dryer, dumped out, and expected to walk in a straight line.
We get you steady again. You feel informed and supported through this painful and uncertain time.
You have a thought partner for the logistics of divorce and a safe place to voice your fears and most tender feelings.
This work is about creating a vision for your future as an individual who deserves a full and rewarding life.
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We coach clients individually or in parallel with their spouse (one of us coaching you, the other coaching your spouse).
Our first priority is always giving you the support you need to feel stable during this uncertain time.
Then we begin helping you shift from the marital relationship to the co-parenting relationship. It is a learned skill. We can teach it to you.
This work is about creating a vision for the future of your family, restructured to put your kids first and create ease for both co-parents.
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Mediation is a process that keeps your family out of court, but still results in a legal divorce.
We lead you through a series of structured meetings with a roadmap of everything that needs to get decided. You make the decisions with our support, versus a court deciding for you.
We’ll guide you through it with a vision for how you want life to feel for you and your family five years from now.
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We are mediators, which means our loyalty is to the best outcome for your family as a whole.
We are also attorneys, but we are not acting as your attorney or representing you in court. But because we are attorneys, we are authorized to draft and file your divorce documents at the end of your mediation.
We are both skilled and experienced negotiators and contract drafters. Our agreements reflect our lived experience as co-parents. Your agreement will be practical, easy to understand, and will simplify your life instead of complicating it.
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This is our most comprehensive support and is a combination of all of our offerings tailored to where you are in your divorce process and your family’s unique needs.
See the section below titled Integrated Divorce Method to learn more.
The Integrated Divorce Method
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An informational meeting to walk you through our approach and ensure alignment with your needs.
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We get to know you - your goals, concerns, and priorities so we can design a process that supports you best.
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We begin coaching each of you to stabilize, organize thinking, and create forward movement.
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You can’t understand the big picture of divorce if you’ve never been through it before. We teach you about this new landscape and how to navigate it.
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We guide structured conversations where you decide together how to resctructure and redefine your family.
We bring in specialists when needed so you are always getting expert-level care.
We draft your paperwork, walk you through it so you understand what is happening at every step, and file any and all necessary documents with the court.
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The needs of your family change over time. A lot of things will get easier, but new challenges will come up.
We’re here for you when you need a thought partner, an intermediary who already knows your story, or a referral to a specialist in our network.
Our Network
One of the hardest parts of divorce is knowing what resources you need and who to trust to fulfill those needs. We solve for that with our trusted network of vetted professionals - from estate planning experts to child development specialists to fitness and wellness resources.