We combine coaching and strategic process management together with legal knowledge and mediation techniques to help families move through divorce with less chaos, less damage, and better long-term outcomes - especially when children are involved.

No. Our process is often most valuable when communication feels difficult. You do not need to be friends. You simply need a shared willingness to work toward resolution outside of court.

Yes - as long as both people are willing to stay out of court and participate in the process. Conflict is normal in divorce. Our job is to create enough structure and support to help each person feel understood enough to come to the table calmer and clearer. This allows for better decision-making and a long-term vision.

That is one of the main reasons people come to us. We help parents make decisions and learn skills that reduce unnecessary stress on children, preserve important relationships, and support healthier co-parenting over time.

Yes. One of the biggest fears people have entering any divorce process is feeling underresourced or outnumbered. Our process is designed so both people feel informed, heard, and guided throughout as individuals and as part of a family.

We guide families step-by-step through the emotional and parenting aspects of divorce as well as the legal and financial aspects. Instead of reacting to crisis after crisis, you’ll have a clear roadmap and a customized plan for your family.

Yes. We work with each client to figure out what they actually need. We will never push or pressure you to do anything that isn’t a fit for your circumstance.

Our experience lends itself to helping parents, but we work with couples who want to reduce the trauma of divorce and set themselves up to flourish in the next chapter regardless of whether or not you have children.

No. Most couples come to us feeling overwhelmed, emotionally exhausted, and far from aligned. You do not need to have a peaceful relationship to begin. We help create structure, clarity, and a workable process from the very beginning.

Our goal is not just getting paperwork signed. We help clients create the foundation for the next chapter of their lives - including healthier communication, sustainable co-parenting, and a more stable future for their family.  We model this for you both from day one.

Many people want to understand whether there is a way to move through divorce without escalating conflict, losing years to litigation, or damaging important family relationships. The consultation helps families understand what options are actually available before choosing a path.

Generally, no.

Most of the work we do together is under the umbrella of mediation and/or preparing for mediation and is confidential. Everyone involved agrees to confidentiality and California law prevents mediation information from being used in court.

We will always share any and all confidentiality protections or lack of protections with you in advance.

No. In our role as mediators who are also attorneys, we do not act as your divorce lawyers - but we are authorized in a "limited scope" way to handle your legal filings and ensure that your divorce is formally completed.

If you already have divorce attorneys handling the legal aspects of your divorce, we can still work with you as coaches focused on transitioning your marital relationship into a healthy co-parenting relationship.  We would work with your attorneys to ensure holistic and streamlined support.